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    • Wedding Liturgy Preparation

      Here are some helpful tips and resources as you plan for your upcoming wedding liturgy.

      Resources
      • Click here to view reading and responsorial psalm options
      • Click here for information about planning music

      Worship Aid/Program Templates
      • Liturgy of the Word only - Canva Template
      • Liturgy of the Word only - Microsoft Word
      • Liturgy of the Word only - Pages (Mac or iOS)
      • Liturgy of the Word only - Google Doc (File/Make a Copy to edit)
      • Full Mass with Communion - Microsoft Word
      • Full Mass with Communion - Pages (Mac or iOS)
      • Full Mass with Communion - Google Doc (File/Make a Copy)

      Preparation
      Regarding the preparation of the liturgy, the Order of Matrimony says the following: 

      The celebration itself of the Sacrament must be diligently prepared, as far as possible, with the engaged couple.  Marriage should normally be celebrated within Mass.  Nevertheless, with due regard both for the necessities of pastoral care and for the way in which the prospective spouses and those present participate in the life of the Church, the pastor should decide whether it would be preferable to propose that Marriage be celebrated within or outside of Mass.  The following should be chosen with the engaged couple, as the circumstances so suggest: the readings from Sacred Scripture, which will be explained in the Homily; the form for expressing mutual consent; the formularies for the blessing of rings, for the Nuptial Blessing, for the intentions of the Universal Prayer or Prayer of the Faithful, and for the chants.  Moreover, attention should also be given to the appropriate use of options provided in the rite as well as to local customs, which may be observed if appropriate.

    • Liturgy Planning Form

      The maximum number of form submissions has been reached. This form is currently not available.
      • Fill out and submit this form at least 6 weeks prior to your wedding date.  You will receive a copy of your submission via email.  If you have any questions, contact Karina Miranda at  karinam@holyinfantchurch.org or 919-973-0008
      • Contact Information
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      • Liturgy Details
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        • You should talk to the priest or deacon preparing you for matrimony about this decision
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        • At least two people
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        • Livestream can be viewed via the parish website. Archived video can be sent by request following the wedding.
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        • Leave blank if not yet scheduled or you don't know
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      • Liturgy of the Word
        • Click here to view all options for the readings and responsorial psalm.  Page numbers below correspond to this document.
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        • Readers should be able to attend the rehearsal
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        • Can be one or two people, can be one of the Readers of the First or Second Readings if needed
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      • Music
        • Click here for instruction about planning music, musician fees, and to see a list and listen to possible selections.  Please do not submit this planning form before speaking with the director of music, Jeff Rice.
        • If no selections are listed, quiet music will be played for about 10 minutes leading up to the beginning of the liturgy.
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